The Feminine Flow

This is a very sensitive topic for many people, for cultural and social reasons, that almost no one speaks of frankly. That's why I decided to discuss it openly from spiritual and energetic perspective. If you are going to read it from pre-judgmental feminist / anti-feminist point of view, then it's better to skip it because you will miss the whole point of it.

All women are aware of their natural monthly cycle named 'menstrual flow', where blood is released outside the feminine body for few days every month. And it is often accompanied by emotional imbalance, physical pain and even thoughts of self-guilt. It all began when I wondered: Why do women have to go in such physical and emotional pain every month? Why is it natural that they just have to suffer for being themselves?! To me, this always seemed something odd and not in harmony with the laws of Nature. Ready-made religious and scientific answers never really satisfied me. No one suffers for just being who they are. Pain is a sign of imbalance. Pain is a sign that something is not right and it calls for your attention to re-balance. For instance, if you exercise too much, you start feeling pain. Your body is telling you: "This is enough for today, you need to relax". If you listen to your body, the pain is gone. If you just ignore, the pain will increase till you are forced to stop through extreme fatigue or injury. And this is much more painful because you have ignored the first signs. The same happens if you become emotionally addicted to someone or something, you start feeling emotional and even physical pain for fear of losing them. Nature is telling you to re-balance and not to get too attached to something that is not who you are. Again, if you listen, you are healed. But if you ignore, the pain increases till you are forced to let go. Because we are simply here to grow and evolve. Attachment keeps us stuck in one level. This is not in harmony with the way things are. Nature has its ways to make you grow. If you listen willingly and go with the flow, you will flourish. If not, you will be forced to. It might seem harsh on the surface, but deep inside, it's all for your natural growth.

So back to our topic, why do many women experience monthly pain and confusion accompanied by their natural monthly flow? Is there something they are missing? Is there something inside that they don't listen to? Nature is Nature. It has no exceptions. The laws work the same for everyone and everything everywhere. It is just our misunderstanding and limited views that prevent us from seeing the whole picture, but Nature is always whole. So what is happening here?

Through observation and contemplation, I realised that just by being a female, you have access to higher dimensions and deeper levels of consciousness beyond the physical realm. The male energy is generally focused in the brain and on the physical realm, but females have natural bigger capacity of "feeling". They have Divine energy naturally flowing through the womb, the heart and goes through the whole body if she is conscious enough to allow it to. This natural phenomena comes in a package with being female. But for males, it is something that they need to work on and practice to be able to acquire. The Divine energy is infinite, but the feminine body is limited, so where does all this energy go? Yes, the menstrual flow is Nature's device to release the excessive energy out of a woman's body. It is the physical manifestation of spiritual renewal. It is a period of stillness, calmness, recreation and receiving new Divine inspiration. For the feminine body to survive and flourish, it has to continuously let go of what is not needed to make space for new energy to flow. Plus that it is a preparation for a possibility of pregnancy. And what is pregnancy but Divine creation? The feminine is a natural creator and all the the process of creation happens inside her.

In Nature, nothing is negative, nothing is bad. But only our understanding that makes it so. As a female, if you don't accept your natural flow and feel bad for just being you, don't be surprised when every time it's the same painful feeling that you try to hide and you are not listening to. If you don't listen to your body's calling for inner stillness and instead, go on escaping through sweets, pain killers and outer experience, you are missing the very essence of your Divine connection. You are not tapping into your inner beauty allowing it to grow.

Why am I bothering myself to write all this? Why do I care?
Because for this planet to survive, the dormant feminine energy is needed to awake. The male energy has grown too excessive and manipulative all over. Too much thinking, too much doing and too much desire to control has driven us insane. Even most females are not aware of their own true Nature. It's time to re-balance. What we need is less running, less doing, more being, more presence, more feeling and soul connection. Man or a woman, we are all in a hurry. We are all nuts. We are all running after nothing. We both need to allow the Divine feminine energy to remind us of our own Nature that we have long forgotten.

Appreciate your Nature as a woman and embrace all your cycles. Appreciate your Nature as a man and embrace all her cycles, for you have your own cycles too. Love and understanding is the only way for us to live together in harmony; Harmony and balance is the only way for Earth to thrive again.